Can we be tad less UGLY?

What is UGLY – Looks or thoughts?  Or All or actually None? Self proclaimed or badge given by others?

LOOKS: They say Beauty is in every creation, it’s a matter of using the right lens – but is it so?  After looking at Alia as a bride which was simply magical, didn’t some of us wanted to be a bit more beautiful or a tad less ugly?   Honest answer – most of us had that feeling!

But the truth behind beauty and magic was the “happiness and love” she was oozing out from evert tiny detail of her bridal wear – be it moon grey saree or the kaliras or the mangal sutra or the minimalistic makeup………and all this was beautiful bcoz she was in love which was written all over her

Now, may be everyone is not lucky to have found love in someone, but everyone is fortunate to have yourself – and self-love is certainly stronger, more lasting, less dependence and less painful.     So add some self-love babes and be less Ugly and more beautiful and at the end, remember, some scars are good, just own them with pride!

THOUGHTS:  jealousy, dark fantasies, anger, shame – don’t we all have it?  Some are self-inflicted and some are outcome of events……They say ‘when pressed against the wall, the best and worst display themselves’ and we can’t agree more.   Its ok to have UGLY thoughts, so far, its not hurting anyone else.   But the point is ‘it is hurting you’ and that’s not OK.  

So while let the worst side of yours display in form of UGLY thoughts, let the feeling of gratitude overpower and make it less UGLY.   And we will tell you how – its simple – talk to anyone who has untimely lost their loved ones (be it COVID or Cancer).  The UGLY thoughts will change to ‘feeling of being shallow’ and gradually to ‘gratitude’ and then you have arrived!   Remember, grass is green where you water it, so choose your pasture – nurture gratitude and happiness and thoughts will be less UGLY.

Ladies and Gents – life is beautiful – Be the Sugar in heart and grease in head!  The walk of faith will make everything less UGLY.